I dont want a bliss filled perfect marriage, I will settle for an okay one. Just like every friday nite he is out at the bar until closing time and I am home. I dont have to stay home of course but I am not a partier, sometimes I go to a movie or to the book store or shopping. He will come home around 3 and sleep on the couch and I will get up and go to yoga.

Things were better when I was the only one unhappy and he was fine.