He told me today that he cant sleep with me anymore, and he talked about how we need to just get a divorce but he will lose everything, i said I dont want that, I dont want to hurt him. He said that it is bad either way, staying together or divorcing, he cried too. He was prob still drunk, it was early in the morn and he had been out all nite. He is still out now at 11 pm, he has been gone all day. this is my normal, it is sad.